It’s not just a phase, bisexual

With so many people refusing to recognize bisexuality as legitimate and forming negative stereotypes against them, bi really has to have a strong sense of self.

It’s great that bisexuality is getting more visibility and more people feel comfortable. However, there are still a huge amount of misconceptions, irritating questions and offensives phrases that come up in conversations. Some people do ‘experiment’ for a short while. But when someone has spent their whole life since puberty knowing they’re attracted to both genders, it’s probably not a phase.

Bisexuality doesn’t always mean being attracted to only two genders. Why do you think that someone will be interested in spicing up your life, just because they are bi? However, believe that nobody has the right to dictate to you who you are or who you should be with, whether that’s the same gender or not. As long as you are happy and that your partner makes you happy then that’s all that matters.

Bisexual, it's not just a phase. Because speaking out about your bisexuality has not been easy. Until the day that I have a relationship with a woman and want to introduce her to everyone I know. But I don’t see that happening. Invisibility is a big problem for people who are bisexual because they often have no need to mention it. People would notice if the person was gay, but being bi is not so obvious, and that's why we should talk about it.

5 Tips For Bisexual Couples Looking For Female Partners

First of all, it’s hard to tell if a woman is straight or bisexual. Furthermore, it’s quite rude to directly propose to a bisexual woman to join in a couple; you can’t just walk up and say “hi there, would you like to join us in a threesome?” That could land you in a lot of trouble.

So, the question remains- how do couples interested in bisexual women find them and get them to join in an encounter? Below are a few tips to follow to ensure you achieve this and remain in one piece.

Social Influence: One of the fastest places to meet new people is through the social media. Once you are sure you want to explore bisexuality, sign up on a number of professional bisexual dating sites. Here you can find other bisexual singles or couples to explore your sexuality. Couples can post an interesting topic on the largest bisexual blog /forum to get some support and help or browse bisexual dating tips from real user's dating experience.

There are very many dating sites to find women looking for couples; they are dedicated to serving those women with a bisexual sexual orientation. Before choosing a site that one will use, they should begin by surveying different sites which are accessible. Some of these sites might be able to serve women looking for couples while others might not. This is a very important thing, just do not go to one website and select it. You need to do the right kind of research and that will make things much easier for you.

The Language of your profile: this concerns your profile on the bisexual sites or on your other social media accounts, the first thing you need to do is to get your profile language right in order to attract the right set of persons. Your profile will either attract people to you or make them move on to the next profile, For example, there’s the question of sexual preference- Are you open or polyamorous? Both mean different things; while Polyamory “is the practice of our desire for intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the knowledge of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy," openness is a sexual predisposition (or a mixture of both) towards the opposite, the same, or to more than one sex or gender. Decide which applies to you, and use one of the two in your profile; not both. Beyond that, make sure the grammar and spellings in your profile are spot-on so your targeted audience understands you well. Don’t call women girls as many find it offensives, especially women with bisexual tendencies who are particular about gender and power. Similarly, use the right terminology like the word unicorn.

Feminine Power: Naturally, women feel safer with other women. It might be an issue if your profile picture, for example, shows off a man; an imposing, muscular, male figure or the first set of photos are of the male in your partnership. You need to your profile that of his and hers profiles and linked to one other; use photos of the two of you together. This will double your chances of being seen, and it will present the two of you in the most positive and open light. “Yeah, she’s real, she can vouch for this dude, and I can see her whole profile right here.” Similarly, as a bisexual woman in an open relationship, it’s important that you meet women by yourself first and then introducing your boyfriend if everyone is the idea.

Engage, instead of objectifying, your unicorn: Several couples are in the habit of making their unicorn feel like an object from the moment they approach her. While the attention can be flattering for an elusive sexual partner, it can also make her feel like a stunt vagina. While some unicorns may enjoy just being an extra body for carnal desire. Others want to feel sexually stimulated in both mind and body, regardless of the fact that it’s for one-night or on-going. The desire of a couple feels hottest for some unicorns when they get to feel the seductive and flirty vibes from both partners and the peripheral high of their excitement to be involved in the threesome with each other. It’s more of an issue where the couple is dealing with an insecurity they are either unaware of or ignoring. This usually manifests itself in a constant reinforcement from them of the unicorn’s place as an outsider in their relationship.

Mutual benefit: after meeting up with someone, start with dates in public spaces; create a safe, fun environment. Make sure she knows that’s the plan as well. Talk to each other and create a feeling of friendship and camaraderie before trying to take things to the next level. Right now, friendship seems like an afterthought in your profile, but a third will want to be sure she’s at least treated well. Make sure you’ve all had a chance to talk about your expectations for a first intimate encounter before it actually happens. This way ensures that everyone feels good. This way, you will be more likely to get what you actually want in the long run. There are a lot of possibilities here, and you might need to ease into things. You could start with her watching you two together at first or you and she could go at it first while he watches or you could both focus on her only at first; you can decide on any that works well for you three. The point is to ensure all parties are well satisfied.

Finally, you need to have it in mind that your engagement of a unicorn doesn’t make the statement that you want her permanently in the emotional sacredness of your relationship. It only acknowledges her as an active participant in your threesome. It elevates her desires to the level of importance as yours and it then makes everyone feel luscious as fuck.

  

Heart is empty without love -- To all bisexual and bi curious friends

There are more and more bisexual couples want to date and have fun with bisexual women now! Heart is empty without love.All of us want to meet our best love, but not always. Here is a site can help you, WomenLookingForCouples.com is the best and fastest growing bisexual dating site for bisexual women and couples. If you are bisexual or bi curious, or if you want to meet a bisexual people online, you can try to join it, search and find your best match. As I know, many bisexual people are shy, nervous and want to explore their sexuality and have discrete fun with a man or a woman and eventually in serious relationship. Here, don't be shy, they are bisexual or bicurious, friendly and open minded,kind, honest, funny, respectful,confident, patient, down to earth, love sex and sharing...

Don't Count What You Have Lost,Just See What You Have Now.Many bisexual people always complain that can't find or meet the right person on the dating sites, have you ever think about yourself, why? Did you really want to meet a bi partner or you just ask for sex? Did you want to be a gold member for a bi friend? Do you want to meet bisexual couples not only for fun? All I can hope for is that people learn to love each other a little more. That's what changed my life. And why I've always tried to do the same to everyone I meet. Because in the end. You have no idea how much a small kindness can mean to someone whose about to give up.

It can help bisexual women find couples.Here are many bisexual women, who are getting to know all different kinds of people and do not judge or ridicule for personal preference,tastes, or beliefs, layed back and easy going and not easily rattled or intimidated in most situations.They know what they want and are not afraid to say and DO IT!

Bisexual Couples Looking For Female.
It's most important they have someone who is comfortable with themselves and will be respectful of their relationship. Life is too short, we need new bi friends and support.

Welcome bisexual and bi curious from all walks of life for frank and honest bisexual chat, meet and discussion. Perhaps you're single? Or maybe you're couple, or perhaps in a relationship, and don't know where and how to start, or if this is even for you? Maybe you're experiencing feelings towards other bisexual women and bi couples, you just can't get your head around? We really hope we can help even if it is just an ear to listen or a bit of advice. One thing's for sure, you'll certainly make some bisexual friends along the way! (http://www.womenlookingforcouples.com/ )

Dating Sites For Bisexual Singles And Couples

Have you ever join any bisexual dating sites? If you join them, what do you want to do on these sies？What do you care about on sites? Individual privacy or cost?

As a bisexual, being bisexual, It’s not a lifestyle, it’s not a choice. It’s just who we are.We are human beings, we are just who we are.We need friends and supporter, we need love and partner, we need fun and protection of the law. We need to be accepted like anyone else.  So we join many bisexual clubs, communities, dating sites and so on..sometimes just want to tell the other people that we are always there and we are normal human.

As bisexuality has been recognized by more and more people, there are also many bisexual dating sites that cater to different dating needs. But still have many people said: bored and single. Why? I think there are some reasons :

1.Aimlessness. Many bisexual people want to find a nice date, but they don't know which one is their best choice, women or men, couples, they just say:open minded, have fun with,.... I think if you really want to find a bisexual people , yo should know what kind of gender you can date, many bisexual people like couples, because they like women and men, but most of  people still be a focus.Women OR Men?

2.Join many bisexual dating sites at the same time. Yes, Join more dating sites will increase your chances of making friends, but do you really have so much time to search and make friends on every site?I think 1 or 2 is good. And you can learn more about these sites.

3.For fun. Many bisexual people join bisexual dating sites just for fun and one night stand.If you really want to have a long term relationship and dating partner, you should know that not only for fun.

4.Impatient. Just like rich people have no patience for people who fail to make them richer.Many bisexual people join dating sites, want to meet many partner right now. No, if you have this opinion,you never  meet a nice partner.

Choose the best bisexual dating sites, meet your nice bisexual partner, good luck. If you want to meet bisexual women or couples, you can check ( http://www.bicouplesdatingsites.com/ ) this site is about bisexual singles and couples, help bisexual people search and find bisexual singles and couples.

Your Love, Give or Take?

Have you met the perfect couple, the two soul mate, whose love never dies? Perhaps such love exists, but I have not been met. If your wife or husband is bisexual, for them, it's just not enough to stay together. Many bisexual friends always bound to carry out threesome relationship, Whether they are single or married. They always said they need a soul mate. Maybe it's just an excuse. In reality, even to find the right person fall in love, love that will last. Unfortunately, people always indulges in falling in love with the feeling, but forgot how to maintain love, being in love is not so easily. So, love always begins with a passionate mode, and to draw huge gap between periods.

Many people are always difficult to distinguish between passion and love, perhaps you think of love, just comfort lonely pleasure, desire to possess their own consumption or entertainment. This is not true love.  Your love, give or take?

"I love that feeling of being in love, the effect of having butterflies when you wake up in the morning. That's special."--- Jennifer Aniston

If your partner is bisexual, do you agree with he(she) finds another bisexual or bi curious people join your life, sometimes just in the bed? I joined many bisexual dating sites, there are many bisexual couples who just looking for bi female or male join their life, they are open for just play or if the connections are right would love to make it a more serious thing. They are looking to add some fun. Maybe they want to find true love, about threesome, but many times, they don't find and it's difficulty to find true love.

As a bisexual, I think many times, we are just falling  in love with the feeling, not the true love. We often want to try to have a threesome relationship, and then, if it 's not long-term relationship, brings more emptiness and loneliness. So you must go on looking for another relationship, it's disturbing.

Many bisexual women and couples, looking for the third partner join , for fun, for love, for experience, for desire of bisexual, no matter what, just be yourself, your love, no matter give or take, just treat wholeheartedly.

Is It Hard For Bisexual Women To ExploreTheir Sexuality?

Sexuality is part of being human. Love, affection and intimacy all play a role in healthy relationships from childhood through old age. As with any other personal information, when and whom you tell about your sexuality is your decision. With the development society, sexuality is no longer about whom you sleep with, but also who you don't! There days, there are many bisexual support groups and websites helping people to explore their sexuality and meet potential partners. At these websites, you will be encouraged by your peers, many of whom are similarly motivated to explore the sometimes mysterious depths of human sexuality. But for bisexual women, is it hard to explore their sexuality?

1.Family, Friends and Colleagues.
Many bisexual women are hide their bi side, they don't want to their family, friends and colleagues know that, because she is not sure whether they will support or discriminate her. Although our country is a highly open country, but not everyone can accept bisexual.

2.Themselves.
Most of bisexual women  are shy, shy people often avoid situations that force close contact with other people.  So they don't want to go to someplace, such as party, bisexual bar and so on. If you tend to be a shy person, this may be somewhat difficult for you. Shy people are often insecure.

3.Security.
Although bi is not the same as sexual promiscuity, but more and more health problems appear in the bisexual, such as HIV/AIDS. Although people mouth said the finding true love, but most of them for bisexual fun, threesome or foursome, In the end just for sex. Safer sex for lesbians and bisexual women is a way to protect yourself from contracting or transmitting sexually transmitted diseases including HIV and AIDS. Lesbians and bisexual women many be at higher risk of depression, suicidal thoughts and self-harm. So mental health is also very important.

4.Bisexual Websites.
Many bisexual women  join bisexual dating sites,  for fun or explore their sexuality, they are often together with their husband, find a single bi female or girl join their life or bed. Threesome or foursome, they are often get support from their husband, they are the lucky ones. Most of them can find a or more bi friends at bisexual websites.

5.Lesbian.
Many bisexual women just want to date bi female , but They are generally considered to be lesbian. They love girls, but they are not lesbian. This also caused many bisexual women hard to explore their sexuality.

No matter what, bisexual women need support and friends, explore their sexuality or just for fun. Everyone have rights to choose their life.

Listen To Your Heart -- Bisexual Women And Men

Bisexual women live in a gray area between the black and whites of “straight” or “gay.” They often have to explain — more than straight women or lesbians. I'm a bisexual woman, engaged to a man, and I've been thinking about this a lot lately.  But for most of my adult life (I'm 30), most of my family and friends considered me a lesbian.  I never really labeled myself either way, and I tended not mention the people that I was dating casually, so many of them didn't realize that I was actively and frequently going back and forth.  In a way, marrying a man makes it easy to ‘hide.’ People just assume you’re straight. It can be freeing not to have to worry about people’s negative reactions to even just seeing you with your partner. But on the other side of the coin, it makes me sad that I even need to hide or worry about these things.” I never gave myself the chance to think about it, I realized that I was falling in love with one of my female friends (who is also bisexual).

It's not so much about what  I'm doing but more of who I'm doing it with. Love give people a lot of courage change the world, not only bisexual women, but all of people who are looking for true love and feeling. We should respect them and support these LOVE. I know men who are incredibly trustworthy, with whom I feel safe and that my boundaries are respected. But unfortunately, there a lot of men who don’t have that same reverence for a woman’s “no.” This can happen with female partners, too. But with men, I have had my boundaries crossed or feared violence on many more occasions.

If you're straight, gay or lesbian then that would be the category you choose. If you like both that would make you bisexual, regardless of whether you're mostly straight or mostly same sex attracted. If you want to hide your bi, just do it. Life give us rights to choose our real life, not for other people, just be yourself. If you want to date bisexual women or men, couples, just join bisexual dating sites, choose the best bisexual dating site, meet a nice bi ...